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Relationships: The Good, The Bad, And The F*cking Ugly Read more: http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/relationships-the-good-the-bad-and-the-fcking-ugly/ Follow us on Instagram | Elite Daily on Facebook
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F. Scott Fitzgerald said, “There are all kinds of love in this world, but never the same love twice.” Simply put, relationships come in many different forms, and you will never have the same love with one partner as you have with the next. Take a second to think back on your past relationships.
Were you head-over-heels in love? Did your partner feel the same way about you? Was the trust, honesty and every other desirable element present to keep the relationship going? Have you experienced a relationship that was complete sh*t? Today, we're talking about relationships: the good, the bad, and the f*cking ugly.
The Good
Ah, good relationships. It seems as if these are far and few between. The good relationships are the ones that – simply put – make you happy and keep you happy. There is no rollercoaster of emotions with this partner. You feel grounded and safe in the foundation that you've built to get where you are, and there is no questioning your fidelity to one another.
Brothers and sisters, if this describes a relationship you are in – good for you! Take your lover by the hands, let them know you care and don't f*ck it up! For some, the good relationships have a different definition. Ever been in a relationship where you're the one who is loved more? You find yourself feeling less attached to your partner and craving some independence.
Your thoughts might sway from total infatuation to indifference. Why do we stay if we're not totally captivated? These relationships benefit us not only because the comfort is there, but also because being loved more is less stressful when you have confidence in your partner. You could probably bet on your partner's fidelity and love for you.
Being loved more doesn't necessarily mean that you are completely turned off by your partner. Maybe it just means that you reap a little bit more benefit by being less emotionally attached. Is this a good relationship, though? What about the other partner – the one who loves more? If the differentiation between who is loved more isn’t clearly defined, then does either partner really notice? In my opinion, being loved a little more, or loving a little more is of the inevitable.
The Bad
The bad relationships are most often marked by infidelity. Whether it's in our human nature to avoid monogamy, or it's just an accepted norm that has quietly crept into our f*cked up society, people can't seem to stay happy with one partner for very long. Did you know that psychologists have actually determined two types of infidelity? Cheating can often be differentiated between emotional or sexual infidelity.
More often than not, men tend to care more about sexual infidelity, while women are more concerned with the emotional aspect. Men search for answers about the sex: How many times did it happen? Did you have an orgasm? How long did it last? Women want to know if her partner developed feelings during the affair. Whether it is emotional or sexual infidelity, cheating results in a mass of unwanted emotions and takes a huge toll on what might have once been a blooming relationship.
Jealousy, fear, curiosity, anger and sadness are only a handful of the emotions that arise when a relationship falls victim to cheating. So, again we wonder, why do we stay in these relationships? After an episode of infidelity, many people have no hesitation in leaving. You, cheater, you've made your bed and you'll have to lie in it.
Others, however, fall into the emotional turmoil and desire their partner's attention and comfort more than ever – if it's there for the taking. In some cases, the kinks can be worked out and the relationship can be mended overtime. The others, though, are headed down a path marked by infidelity and unhappiness. Once a cheater; always a cheater. We hear it all the time, but do we choose to believe it, or ignore it?
The F*cking Ugly
If you've ever been in a f*cking ugly relationship, hopefully you're not in it anymore. These relationships come in many forms: dysfunctional, abusive, addictive, etc. Dysfunctional relationships involve frequent arguing, which often ends in withdrawal by one partner, or both. Dysfunctional relationships are more than likely molded by one partner that constantly degrades, blames, demands, mocks and insults the other partner during heated arguments.
Abusive relationships can stem from dysfunctional relationships in the form of verbal and emotional abuse, and they can even lead to physical harm. If you've been involved in such relationships, you know the toll that they take. The emotional ups and downs, the declining self-esteem and the inability to move forward in one or more areas of your life are only a few consequences of these f*cking ugly relationships. So, why the hell do we stay? The reasons for staying in such torturous relationships are only understood by those involved.
To outsiders, it can be the most frustrating thing to see friends fall victim to such f*cking ugly relationships. For the victims, staying in a relationship like this can be explained by psychological distress and concern for what the partner might do if you leave, superficial attachment in one or more areas of life such as financial dependence, beliefs about love and beliefs in the relationship improving, or even unconscious feelings that are so deep-rooted and originated as far back as childhood.
No matter what the reason, f*cking ugly relationships should never – I repeat, never – be endured. Involvement in these relationships holds the victim back from expression of their true self and expression of true love to someone who loves them back without reservation. To all the victims of f*cking ugly relationships out there, pick your head up, dig deep down to pull out your confidence, kick your partner to the curb, and do you!
Sure F. Scott, there are all types of love in this world, but what types of love do we choose to accept? In the book The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Chboksy writes, “We accept the love we think we deserve.” Personally, I disagree, sir. We will encounter many different relationships in our lifetime, all of which will change the people we are in one way or another.
We cannot choose who we fall in love with, nor can we change the people we fall in love with when things go wrong. We can, however, be happy with whom we are as individuals and stay firm in what we want in life and what we believe to be love. People will continue to surprise you with each passing day, but if you continue to stay true to you, everything little thing is gonna be alright. Cue Bob Marley.
not mine.credit and owner: ELITE DAILY
F. Scott Fitzgerald said, “There are all kinds of love in this world, but never the same love twice.” Simply put, relationships come in many different forms, and you will never have the same love with one partner as you have with the next. Take a second to think back on your past relationships.
Were you head-over-heels in love? Did your partner feel the same way about you? Was the trust, honesty and every other desirable element present to keep the relationship going? Have you experienced a relationship that was complete sh*t? Today, we're talking about relationships: the good, the bad, and the f*cking ugly.
The Good
Ah, good relationships. It seems as if these are far and few between. The good relationships are the ones that – simply put – make you happy and keep you happy. There is no rollercoaster of emotions with this partner. You feel grounded and safe in the foundation that you've built to get where you are, and there is no questioning your fidelity to one another.
Brothers and sisters, if this describes a relationship you are in – good for you! Take your lover by the hands, let them know you care and don't f*ck it up! For some, the good relationships have a different definition. Ever been in a relationship where you're the one who is loved more? You find yourself feeling less attached to your partner and craving some independence.
Your thoughts might sway from total infatuation to indifference. Why do we stay if we're not totally captivated? These relationships benefit us not only because the comfort is there, but also because being loved more is less stressful when you have confidence in your partner. You could probably bet on your partner's fidelity and love for you.
Being loved more doesn't necessarily mean that you are completely turned off by your partner. Maybe it just means that you reap a little bit more benefit by being less emotionally attached. Is this a good relationship, though? What about the other partner – the one who loves more? If the differentiation between who is loved more isn’t clearly defined, then does either partner really notice? In my opinion, being loved a little more, or loving a little more is of the inevitable.
The Bad
The bad relationships are most often marked by infidelity. Whether it's in our human nature to avoid monogamy, or it's just an accepted norm that has quietly crept into our f*cked up society, people can't seem to stay happy with one partner for very long. Did you know that psychologists have actually determined two types of infidelity? Cheating can often be differentiated between emotional or sexual infidelity.
More often than not, men tend to care more about sexual infidelity, while women are more concerned with the emotional aspect. Men search for answers about the sex: How many times did it happen? Did you have an orgasm? How long did it last? Women want to know if her partner developed feelings during the affair. Whether it is emotional or sexual infidelity, cheating results in a mass of unwanted emotions and takes a huge toll on what might have once been a blooming relationship.
Jealousy, fear, curiosity, anger and sadness are only a handful of the emotions that arise when a relationship falls victim to cheating. So, again we wonder, why do we stay in these relationships? After an episode of infidelity, many people have no hesitation in leaving. You, cheater, you've made your bed and you'll have to lie in it.
Others, however, fall into the emotional turmoil and desire their partner's attention and comfort more than ever – if it's there for the taking. In some cases, the kinks can be worked out and the relationship can be mended overtime. The others, though, are headed down a path marked by infidelity and unhappiness. Once a cheater; always a cheater. We hear it all the time, but do we choose to believe it, or ignore it?
The F*cking Ugly
If you've ever been in a f*cking ugly relationship, hopefully you're not in it anymore. These relationships come in many forms: dysfunctional, abusive, addictive, etc. Dysfunctional relationships involve frequent arguing, which often ends in withdrawal by one partner, or both. Dysfunctional relationships are more than likely molded by one partner that constantly degrades, blames, demands, mocks and insults the other partner during heated arguments.
Abusive relationships can stem from dysfunctional relationships in the form of verbal and emotional abuse, and they can even lead to physical harm. If you've been involved in such relationships, you know the toll that they take. The emotional ups and downs, the declining self-esteem and the inability to move forward in one or more areas of your life are only a few consequences of these f*cking ugly relationships. So, why the hell do we stay? The reasons for staying in such torturous relationships are only understood by those involved.
To outsiders, it can be the most frustrating thing to see friends fall victim to such f*cking ugly relationships. For the victims, staying in a relationship like this can be explained by psychological distress and concern for what the partner might do if you leave, superficial attachment in one or more areas of life such as financial dependence, beliefs about love and beliefs in the relationship improving, or even unconscious feelings that are so deep-rooted and originated as far back as childhood.
No matter what the reason, f*cking ugly relationships should never – I repeat, never – be endured. Involvement in these relationships holds the victim back from expression of their true self and expression of true love to someone who loves them back without reservation. To all the victims of f*cking ugly relationships out there, pick your head up, dig deep down to pull out your confidence, kick your partner to the curb, and do you!
Sure F. Scott, there are all types of love in this world, but what types of love do we choose to accept? In the book The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Chboksy writes, “We accept the love we think we deserve.” Personally, I disagree, sir. We will encounter many different relationships in our lifetime, all of which will change the people we are in one way or another.
We cannot choose who we fall in love with, nor can we change the people we fall in love with when things go wrong. We can, however, be happy with whom we are as individuals and stay firm in what we want in life and what we believe to be love. People will continue to surprise you with each passing day, but if you continue to stay true to you, everything little thing is gonna be alright. Cue Bob Marley.
not mine.credit and owner: ELITE DAILY
Saturday, November 26, 2016
綾瀬はるかが4位！紅白歌合戦の歴代司会“良かった”ランキング
女子SPA！ 11/26(土) 16:20配信
今年で第67回を迎える『NHK紅白歌合戦』。出場者が発表になりましたが、“司会者”もまた、その年のラストを飾る大役です。今年の紅組司会は、来年の前期連続テレビ小説『ひよっこ』のヒロイン役・有村架純、白組司会は嵐のメンバー・相葉雅紀。
思えば、今までさまざまな人が司会をやってきました。
そこで今回、女子SPA!では「紅白歌合戦の過去の司会者で『良かった』『ふさわしかった』と感じる有名人」を、アラサー男女200人（25～35歳）に調査（※）。印象に残っている紅白司会者をランキング形式で紹介します。
紅白歌合戦の過去の司会者で『良かった』『ふさわしかった』と感じる有名人（複数回答）
10位 井ノ原快彦 7.0％
8位 黒崎めぐみ 8.0％
8位 松下奈緒 8.0％
7位 黒柳徹子 9.0％
6位 井上真央 10.0％
5位 嵐 13.5％
4位 綾瀬はるか 14.5％
4位 松たか子 14.5％
10位に選ばれたのが、昨年司会の井ノ原快彦。NHK朝の情報番組『あさイチ』内でのさまざまな“神対応”が話題になるなど、彼の癒やしパワーと安定した司会力によってランクインを果たしたようです。
7位には、『徹子の部屋』でお客さんをもてなしている大御所司会者・黒柳徹子。1980～84年まで4年連続で紅組司会を務め、作年は82歳（当時）で32年ぶりに司会者のひとりとして名を連ね、話題となりました。放送中には、ろれつが回っていないかも……？ なんて、不安が視聴者の心をかすめましたが、まあ何事もなく終了したので結果オーライです。
つづいて、連続テレビ小説『おひさま』や大河ドラマ『花燃ゆ』など、NHKの看板番組でヒロインを演じてきたNHK愛され女優こと井上真央が6位に。2011年と2014年には、長らく熱愛がウワサされている松本潤（嵐のメンバーとして出演）とともに司会を務め、ふたりの息が合った司会も話題になりましたよね。いろいろな意味でドキドキしたファンも多かったのでは？ 件の嵐も、グループとして過去5回にわたって司会を務め、5位にランクイン。メンバーも5人と、ゾロ目で縁起がいい感じがしますね。
同率4位にランクインしたのは綾瀬はるかと松たか子。とくに、綾瀬はるかの紅組司会は“放送事故”といわれてしまうほど、さまざまな事件が起きることでも有名です。2013年には、曲名を間違えたりセリフを噛みまくるなど、その珍司会っぷりに、お茶の間に謎の緊張が走ったのは言うまでもありません。何が起こるかわからない、飛び道具司会者としてランクイン？
◆3位 有働由美子 17.0％
近年は安定感のある総合司会者として大役を務めている、NHKの有働由美子アナウンサー。昨年は、紅組司会者に抜擢された迷司会者・綾瀬はるかを井ノ原快彦とともに、フォローする姿が印象的でした。さすが『あさイチ』コンビ、といったところでしょうか。◆2位 中居正広 24.5％
司会者としての手腕を遺憾なく発揮するアイドルといえば、SMAPの中居正広。1997年に白組司会者最年少記録を25歳のときに更新しています。その後も合計6回の司会を務め、2007年には男性初となる紅組の司会に挑戦。紅組司会の当日は、白組司会の笑福亭鶴瓶とともに、絶妙な掛け合いで番組を盛り上げてくれました。
◆1位 仲間由紀恵 36.5％
1位に選ばれたのは、女優の仲間由紀恵！ 2位の中居正広とは過去3回、ともに紅白の司会を務めた盟友（？）です。彼女の落ち着いた声のトーンが視聴者に安心感を与えてくれるのかもしれません。余談ですが、紅白歌合戦で審査員になった2014年の放送時、彼女の隣に座ったのが俳優の阿部寛。この二名がそろったことで、大人気ドラマ『TRICK』の上田山田コンビを思い出し、本編よりも盛り上がってしまったファンが続出したそうです。NHKの粋な演出に拍手！
安心感のある司会者から、視聴者を不安にさせる迷司会者まで、バラエティ豊かな面々が名を連ねました。
さて今年、初司会の有村架純と、嵐としては過去5回司会を務めている相葉雅紀は、どんな司会をしてくれるかも見どころですね。
※【調査概要】
調査方法：アイブリッジ（株）提供の「リサーチプラス」モニター（25～35歳男女）に対してアンケートを行い、その結果を集計したものです。
調査期間：2016年11月15日～11月16日
有効回答者数：25～35歳男女200名
not mine.credit and source: ZASSHI
今年で第67回を迎える『NHK紅白歌合戦』。出場者が発表になりましたが、“司会者”もまた、その年のラストを飾る大役です。今年の紅組司会は、来年の前期連続テレビ小説『ひよっこ』のヒロイン役・有村架純、白組司会は嵐のメンバー・相葉雅紀。
思えば、今までさまざまな人が司会をやってきました。
そこで今回、女子SPA!では「紅白歌合戦の過去の司会者で『良かった』『ふさわしかった』と感じる有名人」を、アラサー男女200人（25～35歳）に調査（※）。印象に残っている紅白司会者をランキング形式で紹介します。
紅白歌合戦の過去の司会者で『良かった』『ふさわしかった』と感じる有名人（複数回答）
10位 井ノ原快彦 7.0％
8位 黒崎めぐみ 8.0％
8位 松下奈緒 8.0％
7位 黒柳徹子 9.0％
6位 井上真央 10.0％
5位 嵐 13.5％
4位 綾瀬はるか 14.5％
4位 松たか子 14.5％
10位に選ばれたのが、昨年司会の井ノ原快彦。NHK朝の情報番組『あさイチ』内でのさまざまな“神対応”が話題になるなど、彼の癒やしパワーと安定した司会力によってランクインを果たしたようです。
7位には、『徹子の部屋』でお客さんをもてなしている大御所司会者・黒柳徹子。1980～84年まで4年連続で紅組司会を務め、作年は82歳（当時）で32年ぶりに司会者のひとりとして名を連ね、話題となりました。放送中には、ろれつが回っていないかも……？ なんて、不安が視聴者の心をかすめましたが、まあ何事もなく終了したので結果オーライです。
つづいて、連続テレビ小説『おひさま』や大河ドラマ『花燃ゆ』など、NHKの看板番組でヒロインを演じてきたNHK愛され女優こと井上真央が6位に。2011年と2014年には、長らく熱愛がウワサされている松本潤（嵐のメンバーとして出演）とともに司会を務め、ふたりの息が合った司会も話題になりましたよね。いろいろな意味でドキドキしたファンも多かったのでは？ 件の嵐も、グループとして過去5回にわたって司会を務め、5位にランクイン。メンバーも5人と、ゾロ目で縁起がいい感じがしますね。
同率4位にランクインしたのは綾瀬はるかと松たか子。とくに、綾瀬はるかの紅組司会は“放送事故”といわれてしまうほど、さまざまな事件が起きることでも有名です。2013年には、曲名を間違えたりセリフを噛みまくるなど、その珍司会っぷりに、お茶の間に謎の緊張が走ったのは言うまでもありません。何が起こるかわからない、飛び道具司会者としてランクイン？
◆3位 有働由美子 17.0％
近年は安定感のある総合司会者として大役を務めている、NHKの有働由美子アナウンサー。昨年は、紅組司会者に抜擢された迷司会者・綾瀬はるかを井ノ原快彦とともに、フォローする姿が印象的でした。さすが『あさイチ』コンビ、といったところでしょうか。◆2位 中居正広 24.5％
司会者としての手腕を遺憾なく発揮するアイドルといえば、SMAPの中居正広。1997年に白組司会者最年少記録を25歳のときに更新しています。その後も合計6回の司会を務め、2007年には男性初となる紅組の司会に挑戦。紅組司会の当日は、白組司会の笑福亭鶴瓶とともに、絶妙な掛け合いで番組を盛り上げてくれました。
◆1位 仲間由紀恵 36.5％
1位に選ばれたのは、女優の仲間由紀恵！ 2位の中居正広とは過去3回、ともに紅白の司会を務めた盟友（？）です。彼女の落ち着いた声のトーンが視聴者に安心感を与えてくれるのかもしれません。余談ですが、紅白歌合戦で審査員になった2014年の放送時、彼女の隣に座ったのが俳優の阿部寛。この二名がそろったことで、大人気ドラマ『TRICK』の上田山田コンビを思い出し、本編よりも盛り上がってしまったファンが続出したそうです。NHKの粋な演出に拍手！
安心感のある司会者から、視聴者を不安にさせる迷司会者まで、バラエティ豊かな面々が名を連ねました。
さて今年、初司会の有村架純と、嵐としては過去5回司会を務めている相葉雅紀は、どんな司会をしてくれるかも見どころですね。
※【調査概要】
調査方法：アイブリッジ（株）提供の「リサーチプラス」モニター（25～35歳男女）に対してアンケートを行い、その結果を集計したものです。
調査期間：2016年11月15日～11月16日
有効回答者数：25～35歳男女200名
not mine.credit and source: ZASSHI
Thursday, October 27, 2016
Thursday, September 22, 2016
evil vs. good
it seem to me the one being abused in this family is brad pitt. his kids doesn't respect him at all specially the oldest ones. angelina is the one controlling the kids and brad had no say whatsoever. angelina is intentionally pushing brad over the edge to make him look like an abuser, make him look dangerous for her kids. she doesn't discipline the kids the normal way at all. in reality she's the one unfit to be parent. she''s selfish and obviously brainwashing her kids by giving them whatever they want to get the kids on her side.
Wednesday, September 21, 2016
Brad Pitt and Family
Pitt is said to be 'furious' at Jolie for filing for divorce, a move he says could put their kids at risk, and sources have now said there is 'no chance' he will allow her to claim sole custody.
Sources close to Pitt told TMZ that he is angry at his estranged wife for allegedly spinning stories about him being a potential risk to their kids because of 'anger issues and substance abuse'.
Pitt reportedly said the actress has 'unleashed hell' because the entire family has become targets for the paparazzi while reports have also claimed that a shocking 'incident' may have prompted the divorce.
Over the last few days, Pitt has had conversations with Jolie pleading for her to handle the divorce 'like adults', sources told the site. He said he wanted to keep the divorce under wraps for the benefit of their children.
The Hollywood stars' home is now surrounded by photographers, with the Los Angeles Police Department patrolling regularly because of the media frenzy.
See i told you she is the one ruining her own family.
Reading all sorts of articles about them Cheating is not true bcoz if it was the case then why no conclusive photos of brad and marion is out coz if there is, it would have been out months ago while they were filming it ended last May 2016.
I think she's the one that changed completely forgetting she has a husband bcoz all she cares about is her kids and refugees. She cannot compromise with brad at all. While all this years Brad compromise with Angelina, supported her in all her endeavors in cambodia, her movie by the sea, her masectomy basically everything.
Angelina should keep in mind that there's only so much she can do for her UN work, this is the result of the path she's walking in she's losing her family. She is the problem.
If Brad is guilty of her allegations why would he still wants to fight for his kids it's bcoz he is not he is innocent. He is a Good Daddy. Here is a sample The bad thing about playing an interview slow and loose is that you’re never sure how to end it. So I keep hanging out at his office, touring the compound and overhearing him on the phone dealing with daddy business, when I realize I’m about to miss my flight. He orders me a car and walks me outside to the gate. It’s not until this moment, under the glare of the California sun, that I’m confronted with the absurdity of standing next to Brad Pitt, on the side of the road, waiting for an Uber from The New York Times.
I think the "team" around Angelina Jolie wants Brad Pitt out of the picture so they can persuade Angelina to pursue a Political career.
She's digging her own grave in this battle. The truth is Angelina is the one that gave up on her marriage she didn't even try to save it not one bit. She resorted to this drastic chaotic mess.
She made the situation complicated, she made a hastily decision.
Evil will not win against the Good. She may have plan this ahead of time but not all plans/strategy works all the time. In fact she is being Selfish and Unreasonable. She's like an Amber Heard in the making. DOING MORE HARM THAN GOOD.
Sources close to Pitt told TMZ that he is angry at his estranged wife for allegedly spinning stories about him being a potential risk to their kids because of 'anger issues and substance abuse'.
Pitt reportedly said the actress has 'unleashed hell' because the entire family has become targets for the paparazzi while reports have also claimed that a shocking 'incident' may have prompted the divorce.
Over the last few days, Pitt has had conversations with Jolie pleading for her to handle the divorce 'like adults', sources told the site. He said he wanted to keep the divorce under wraps for the benefit of their children.
The Hollywood stars' home is now surrounded by photographers, with the Los Angeles Police Department patrolling regularly because of the media frenzy.
See i told you she is the one ruining her own family.
Reading all sorts of articles about them Cheating is not true bcoz if it was the case then why no conclusive photos of brad and marion is out coz if there is, it would have been out months ago while they were filming it ended last May 2016.
I think she's the one that changed completely forgetting she has a husband bcoz all she cares about is her kids and refugees. She cannot compromise with brad at all. While all this years Brad compromise with Angelina, supported her in all her endeavors in cambodia, her movie by the sea, her masectomy basically everything.
Angelina should keep in mind that there's only so much she can do for her UN work, this is the result of the path she's walking in she's losing her family. She is the problem.
If Brad is guilty of her allegations why would he still wants to fight for his kids it's bcoz he is not he is innocent. He is a Good Daddy. Here is a sample The bad thing about playing an interview slow and loose is that you’re never sure how to end it. So I keep hanging out at his office, touring the compound and overhearing him on the phone dealing with daddy business, when I realize I’m about to miss my flight. He orders me a car and walks me outside to the gate. It’s not until this moment, under the glare of the California sun, that I’m confronted with the absurdity of standing next to Brad Pitt, on the side of the road, waiting for an Uber from The New York Times.
I think the "team" around Angelina Jolie wants Brad Pitt out of the picture so they can persuade Angelina to pursue a Political career.
She's digging her own grave in this battle. The truth is Angelina is the one that gave up on her marriage she didn't even try to save it not one bit. She resorted to this drastic chaotic mess.
She made the situation complicated, she made a hastily decision.
Evil will not win against the Good. She may have plan this ahead of time but not all plans/strategy works all the time. In fact she is being Selfish and Unreasonable. She's like an Amber Heard in the making. DOING MORE HARM THAN GOOD.
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